Evaluation as a communicator

The one thing that surprised me the most during the evaluations was that where I see myself and how others see me were different; others perception where more on target and I think I just had wishful thinking on my part. I have discovered that I have a lot of work to be where I want to be as a communicator.  I think that communication is a continual work in progress.

Effective Communication

What are three things that I have learn to where I can be a more effective communicator.

I have several families that are Muslin I need to research this religion and get a real understand of their beliefs and customs. Once I feel that I have learned a general understanding I plan to talk with families and how I can incorporate their beliefs and customs to the classroom. This is where I can make a connection between school and home. This is the first time that I can experience being able to celebrate the holiday’s with the children.  I have always worked for a company that did not participate in holiday events with the children. This feels a bit weird to me. 

To became a better listener and not withhold judgment until I fully understand and then form an impression (Gonzalez-Mena, J. p.37-38). I was once told that when you go to the doctor you have the first 30 seconds to get the point across before they are forming a plan of action. I think sometimes in communication interaction we tend to do the same thing.  I find myself with my mouth open ready to respond before the person has finished their sentence. This is something I really need to work on.

The third thing is to be aware of non-verbal communication such as eye contact and body language.  Rather you are talking to children or their families a present of respect must be apparent.

 

Gonzalez-Mena, J. (2010). 50 strategies for communicating and working with diverse families. Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson Education, Inc. “Understanding and Appreciating Cultural Differences” (pp.36-38).

Comm & Collab week 1

EDUC 6165-2 Comm & Collab Early Childhood Blog 1

The first person that I think of that demonstrates competent communication within a particular context is a friend and mentor of mine Kathy. She is able to remain calm with very interaction. She is able to get her point across by non-verbal communication. I would like to be able to show support to others and yet be able to communicate effectively.